How to Spot Anxiety in Nonverbal Children*

Anxiety in nonverbal children is seen in behavior—patience and reassurance build their sense of security.

Anxiety isn’t always easy to recognize, especially in nonverbal children who may express their feelings in ways that aren’t immediately obvious. Instead of using words, they communicate through actions, body language, and reactions to their surroundings. Spotting these signs can make a big difference in helping them feel safe and supported.

Subtle Signs of Anxiety

Since nonverbal children can’t always say when they feel anxious, their bodies often talk. Some common signs include:

• Increased stimming or repetitive movements – Rocking, hand-flapping, or pacing more than usual.

• Avoiding certain places or activities – Refusing to go somewhere or pulling away from specific people.

• Changes in eating or sleeping patterns – Sudden refusal of favorite foods or trouble falling asleep.

• More meltdowns or emotional outbursts – A sharp increase in crying, frustration, or aggressive behavior.

• Heightened sensitivity to sensory input – Becoming more overwhelmed by noise, touch, or bright lights.

  
  

Finding the Triggers

Anxiety usually doesn’t happen without a reason. Watch for patterns. Does it happen during transitions, in crowded spaces, or when routines change? Identifying what’s causing stress can help prevent future anxiety episodes.

Ways to Provide Comfort

• Keep routines predictable – Knowing what to expect helps reduce stress.

• Use sensory tools – Weighted blankets, fidget toys, or noise-canceling headphones can offer relief.

• Give them choices—Offering small decisions, like choosing between two activities, can give them a sense of control.

• Create a safe space – A quiet, familiar spot to retreat to can make a difference.

Anxiety may look different in nonverbal children, but with patience and observation, you can learn what they need. By tuning into their behaviors and offering reassurance, you help them feel understood and secure.

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*Results may vary; please consult a professional.