If you're an autism parent, you've probably been there standing in the middle of a crowded store or park when your child suddenly has a meltdown.
It’s one of those moments that lasts forever, but you’re not alone. Many of us face this, and there are ways to make these moments easier.
Here are three simple but powerful strategies that can help*:
1. Know What Sets Them Off
Understanding your child’s triggers is a game-changer. Is it the bright lights at the grocery store? The noise at the mall? Knowing what sets your child off helps you plan.
Maybe it’s shopping during quieter hours or bringing headphones to block noise. Every small step adds up, and soon, you’ll notice fewer meltdowns.
If you have access to a developmental paediatrician, they can help identify triggers, too.
2. Have a Calm-Down Plan
When a meltdown starts brewing, it’s time to activate your calming toolkit. This could be a favorite stuffed animal, a sensory toy, or even just a quiet space.
Build a routine your child can learn to recognize—when things get overwhelming, they know it's time for a break. This helps them feel safe, even in unfamiliar environments.
Consider incorporating techniques from speech therapy, ABA, or occupational therapy to strengthen their coping skills.
3. Stay Cool, Even When It’s Hard
Easier said than done, right? But your calm energy does make a difference. When you stay calm, you show your child they’re not alone in this storm. Use a soft voice, simple words, or a gentle touch to reassure them.
It’s okay to breathe and take a moment for yourself, too—your well-being matters. Joining a parent support group or accessing parent training can provide additional tools to keep you grounded.
Finally, don't forget the value of autism apps or speech devices to help communicate when words fail.
Physical therapy can also be beneficial if your child struggles with sensory input or body awareness.
Public meltdowns are tough, but with a little preparation and patience, they can be more manageable. You’ve got this!
*results may vary, please seek a professional for further guidance.
Comments